Rowe told the man that her husband would sometimes drop by during the day to catch her in the act, but that he won't 'intrude on us unless we want him to. The man told Rowe he made 'an excuse for why he was there' and left. Later, the man returned again to Ruhter's house, but this time her husband was home. Rowe apologized to the man, encouraging him to stop by Ruhter's home again: 'Will make it extra wild and worth your time.' He sent Rowe an email letting her know that he went to Ruhter's home, but the gate was locked and he couldn't knock on the door or use the doorbell. The man went to Ruhter's house a few days later, but she wasn't there.

Maybe we can have a nooner on your lunch hour?' Rowe sent a reply: 'I'm available all week. I like the element of surprise.' When the man asked where, Rowe sent him Ruhter's address.Ī few weeks later, the same man replied to ask if she was still available. Rowe told another man to stop by Ruhter's home 'any Monday - Friday, 9 am - 3 pm.

'I love to be surprised and have a man just show up at my door and force his way in the door and on me, totally taking me while I say no,' Rowe wrote to one man who responded to the ads. In email correspondences with men from the sex ads, Rowe had been posing as Ruhter, writing that she had fantasies of being raped while her husband was at work. Last November, Rowe had pled guilty to a stalking charge.Īccording to a statement given to PEOPLE by San Diego County Deputy District Attorney Brendan McHugh, Rowe, 53, had been angry after the younger couple had outbid her on the $700,000-plus house she wanted, and orchestrated the plot to have Ruhter raped in revenge. Rowe, who had been named a San Diego 'Mother of the Year' by Time Warner Cable in 2006, was charged with two felony counts of solicitation of rape and sodomy and misdemeanor charges for identity theft and repeated harassment by electronic communication. However, Rowe's harassment of the young couple soon escalated into a sinister conspiracy to have Ruhter raped.Īfter Rice had run an internet search on his wife's name, he was horrified to discover advertisements for sex with his wife, inviting strangers to their home address for a 'Carmel Valley Freak Show.' The ad, written as if it was by Ruhter, invited men to visit the couple's home to perform sexual acts on her while her husband was at work, reported PEOPLE.Ī few months after Rice reported the incidents to police, Rowe was arrested. On Valentine's Day, at least eight of Rice's neighbors angrily confronted him, asking why he had sent their wives Valentine's Day cards. The couple's home had mysteriously been listed for sale online, their mail had been stopped over Christmas, and they were charged with over $1,000 in magazines and books they did not order. Soon after, strange things started happening. Here's the trailer for the movie:Ī San Diego couple is still living in fear after suffering a year of cruel harassment from a jealous home bidder who allegedly plotted to have the wife raped by a stranger.Īccording to PEOPLE, married couple Jerry Rice and Janice Ruhter had outbid Kathy Rowe on a dream home in upscale Carmel Valley in the fall of 2011. The movie is crazy, but the real life story its based on is also insane.

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